Never, ever, ever (Innbundet)

Series:  395

Author:

Linn Strømsborg

Norwegian title: Aldri, aldri, aldri
Author:
Binding: Innbundet
Year: 2019
Pages: 224
Publisher: Flamme Forlag
Språk: Bokmål
Series:
Serienummer: 395
ISBN/EAN: 9788282883351
Kategori: Literature and Fiction
Overview Aldri, aldri, aldri

«I am 35 years old. I do not want children.

It’s not something I talk to other people about. It is something that I am ashamed of, a topic I avoid; take long verbal detours around. When my friends talk about having kids, I change the topic. I do not want to be to certain or unbending, because I might suddenly wake up one day and find that I have become one of them, an ordinary woman in her thirthies wanting to get pregnant, wanting a family, wanting to expand my life, my body and my heart to make room for more than myself. You are allowed to change your mind.»

The main character in Linn Strømsborg´s novel Never, ever, ever has never wanted children. She has been living with Philip for eight years, and they have agreed to not have children - up until now. Because maybe Philip might want to become a dad after all? And while her two best friends are expecting their first child, and her mother is constantly nagging about grandchildren, and her everyday life is full of parents with toddlers and births and the struggle of others to have enough time for it all, she is firm in her life and her choice about not having children.

Never, ever, ever is a novel about why we have children, and why we do not have children. It is the story about choosing something other than what is expected of you, but at the same time wanting a normal life.

«I do not want my life to stand still, and I have a lot going on in my life too even though I did not give birth to a new human being. It is never still, not in my head, my heart or my body. I just don´t need it to be more. My cup runneth over. I lack nothing.»


Strømsborg explore motherhood through the relation the narrator holds to her own mother, her grandparents and her mothers relationship to her parents. She has interesting perspectives on Motherhood vs. Fatherhood, writes beautifully about growing up and how friendships change once someone has kids. The book is never introverted, but has a narrative driven by good dialogues and storyline. The story is elegantly composed, at times cinematic.
Strømsborg has written rare and energized prose about a timely and somewhat taboo topic.
***** VG

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Reviews from Aldri, aldri, aldri
"Strømsborg utforsker morsrollen gjennom forholdet jeg-fortelleren har til sin egen mor, til besteforeldrene sine, og morens forhold til sine foreldre. Hun byr på interessante perspektiver om farsrollen versus morsrollen, skriver vakkert om oppvekst og godt om hvordan vennskap endrer seg når noen får barn. Boka er aldri navlebeskuende, men er drevet frem av gode dialoger og handling. Historien er elegant komponert, til tider nærmest filmatisk."
 
Trine Saugestad Hatlen, VG

"Noe av det spennende med romanen er at den skildrer valget om ikke å få barn, både slik det ser ut over lengre tid, og i en nokså kritisk periode av livet. (…) Aldri aldri aldri får godt frem det eksistensielt gripende ved å se vinduet lukke seg, og si til seg selv at det er riktig. Boken går svært tett på den barnløse hverdagen og fremtiden."

Vilde Sagstad Imeland, Morgenbladet

"Linn Strømsborg vekkjer medvit om familieforventingane våre. (…) Strømsborgs prosa er inntakande og nær"

Eivind Myklebust, Klassekampen

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Author Linn Strømsborg
Linn Strømsborg (1986–) made her debut 2009 with the novel Roskilde, the story of a group of young people at a music festival, and followed up with the chap book Øya in the same year. She has since written two novels about the main character Eva; Furuset in 2012 and You´re not gonna die (Du dør ikke) in 2016, and in the fall of 2019 her novel Never, ever, ever (Aldri, aldri, aldri) was launched.
Linn Strømsborg is one of the most interesting of young voices in contemporary Norwegian fiction today.

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