Elisabeth Gerhardsen
This book offers good advice about how to strengthen a child's self-esteem and self-awareness. Self-esteem entails a belief in one's own abilities, self-knowledge an understanding of who one is. Both kinds of self- awareness are shaped by what we do in relation to the child, what we tell it and what we say about it, as well as the child's perception of how others respond to him/her and of the world and the adults in his/her immediate environment.What can be done to improve the child's image of itself? How should one praise a child, without suggesting championship status? To what extent does our own self-awareness affect the child? What are the practical consequences of respectively a good and a poor self-image?The author discusses ordinary, everyday situations and suggests how to deal with different challenges. She offers advice on how to go about instilling a good sense of self without accepting all of the child's own premises.A down-to-earth, user-friendly and amusing book for all parents!
Elisabeth Gerhardsen
What to do when your child insists on wearing a summer dress and sandals in mid-winter, or when a trip to the shops turns into a howling tantrum or the child has to start from the beginning whenever it hasn't been allowed to do everything himself? The terrible toddler period is a demanding time that can cause many large and small confrontations. This book provides good advice about how to take control, while at the same time respect the child's feelings and support its self-esteem. The text includes many ideas about how to avoid conflict in the first place, deal with anger and solve locked situations. Thought-provoking examples show how the child thinks and why it acts the way it does. The central aim is to let the child continue liking itself, while helping it to be liked by others. The book contains many typical incidents and suggestions for how to deal with them. A wise, thoughtful book about a difficult time for many parents: good advice which will make everyday life easier for the whole family.