Emma Johannessen / Cecilie Ramona Kåss Furuseth
A useful and unique book about how childhood affects adulthood (and the parenting role). Are you the one who always says yes – or the one who dares to say no? Have you wondered why you react so strongly to small things? Or what truly lies behind the role you play in your family, at work, among your friends? Simply put, why have you become the way you are? The way we were met as children shapes us throughout our lives. Our upbringing influences how we are in relationships, how we handle daily work life, and how we ourselves become as parents. In Your Mother, journalist Cecilie Ramona Kåss Furuseth and clinical psychologist Emma Johannessen delve into both their own and others' stories. With warmth, humor, and honesty, they show how childhood lives on within us – and what we can do to better understand ourselves and those around us. Here you'll find insights, reflections, and practical tools that can help you break old patterns, improve relationships, and avoid passing on what you'd rather leave behind.
Bjørn Westlie
In the summer of 1940, 16-year-old Agnes befriended Ruth Maier, a Jewish refugee four-year-older than her. Agnes grew up in a resistance family and later learned that Ruth had been arrested by the Nazis. Yet, in 1944, Agnes made a choice that would haunt her family for decades—she married a Nazi. It’s a decision her son, journalist and historian Bjørn Westlie, has struggled to understand ever since. For some Norwegians, peace never truly arrived in 1945. That’s when the punishment began. In Mother’s Choice, Westlie explores how the Germany's Nazi occupation of Norway shaped his mother’s life, and the lives of those around her, long after the war ended. Memories of shame, guilt, betrayal and loneliness are told through the eyes of a son trying to care for his mother and make sense of a difficult childhood. Step by step, Westlie uncovers his mother's harrowing life story, the consequences of the choices she made—and the ones made for her by others. Mother’s Choice is a standalone sequel to Father’s War (Aschehoug), which won the prestigious Brage Prize in 2008. Bjørn Westlie (b. 1949) is a Norwegian journalist, author, and historian with a PhD. He has written several critically acclaimed books on World War II.